One event that happens before another often represents a similar order of events in real life, so look for a parallel series of events, thoughts, decisions, feelings, or other things in your past (especially your recent past).
An event that actually happened before another in real life (look for a parallel series of events, thoughts, decisions, or feelings in your past).
Allowing someone to go first (such as through a door) can represent respect, kindness, honor, or a recognition of perceived importance or superior rank.
Putting your needs before others can represent urgency, disrespect, or arrogance.
See Also: Past, Time Passing, Cause, Early
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